Pavel “Hirax” Baričák

Primer of Happiness

Self knowledge, connections, self change

E-book (sample)

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We are only actors on a stage, we play our roles, and we do not understand the whole sense of the play. The stage is the whole world and the time period is forever.

Sajá Saí Bába

I dedicate to darkness that lights me up,

light that drives me,

and Godlove that knows

why it is like this.

Thanks, sources, influences: wife Ivka, daughter Sára Ráchel, son Samo Leo, Sofia, Osho, Don Miguel Ruiz, Kurt Tepperwein, Josef Kirschner, Dave Carnegie, Louise L. Hayová, Valerij Sineľnikov, Michael Newton, Thovt, Neale Donald Walsch, Alexander Astrogor, Anastasia Semjonova, Jo Conrad, Simona Martišová, vedy.sk and many other water wells...

Before you open (yourself)

Both books of the Primers of Happiness are my way. Do not do anything according to them that would not be in harmony with your soul.

Many books will be repeated from my first book. It will not work without, I stand on one basis.

Some chapters are talking on the same topic as in the first part but because I “moved” in the knowledge of truth (from my personal perspective), I opened the topic again.

This second part will not be so easy to digest in all part like the number one Primer of Happiness. It is logical, we are getting higher.

If you do not “like” some chapter, do not forget that it is dedicated to others.

In the inverted commas there are words that Matrix stole or turned the sense. For me there is no bad person, for me it is a teacher. That is why “bad” will be in inverted commas because inverted commas will transform him into a good teacher.

I will remind you again of what you already know. I just wrote it in my, well your words.

Thank you for the reflection and support, Hirax

Dictionary

Sofia

Sofia that I mention in the text often is my spiritual sister, a normal being from meat and bones that knows many technologies for the diagnosis of the body, soul but also communication with Truth. She is wisdom herself and I am grateful to her for clearing a lot of connections.

Matrix

I call Matrix everything that is around us: health service, economics, agriculture, politics, media, state... Simply system that pretends to be here for us but in reality it does not wish us to open our eyes and be happy because otherwise it would lose its money, position, lose its power. And so he wakes up fear in us...

Home

Home is There, where we go back to after leaving our physical body. Well, if we regularly leave and do not stay “flying” not only in the in between space. I perceive home as the common universal kids room for all the people of Earth.

My kids

Sára Ráchel is the first born. Samko Leo is my son who Sárka attracted to her fourteen months after her incarnation on Earth. People that do not know, are mostly confused when I call my kids one name and after couple of lines below I call them the other name.

First part

Intention and self knowledge

How it all began or why are we exactly here

Once upon a time there was a universe, and in that universe there were so many souls that all of our attempts to express their amount numerically failed. They were full of love, laughter, wisdom, and creativity. Then, at one time, the most playful ones decided to conduct an experiment. They chose a planet; they posted a notice with conditions and the goal of the game. The notice declared that whoever was interested in participating would get a body that would create a physical cover around the soul. The words of this notice were as follows:

“As earthly beings with a body, you will be weak, but the soul will still be strong at the same time. Each and every body will be new, unique and nobody will get the same physical cover. If the body gets damaged or stops working, we will get you a new one. But you will have to count with the fact, that there can be some waiting time.

“Also everybody will get a brain and in everybody there will be a heart; whereby the best results will be achieved when the brain and the heart will be used evenly. Through emotions and feelings, the body will send information to the soul about the change of energy, what is happening outside; the heart will consider the situation and decide, and the mind will bring it into effect. This is how it will ideally work. Attention should be paid to this though: every decision made will carry consequences and sooner or later everyone will get to the point where he will have to take the full responsibility for his or her actions. Nobody will be able to take this responsibility from somebody else, or take over somebody else´s responsibility.

“Each and every one that will voluntarily get into the game will go through lessons in the form of tasks, which will be unique for each and every one. Nobody will get the same ones, even though they can be similar sometimes. You will be able to do whatever you choose, but everything that you will do to others will come back to you. The mentioned lessons will be repeated until you understand them, calmly and through many incarnations. Everyone will get mirrors, so you can learn. Many of them can have the form of other similar bodies. When you attract them, they will show you what it is in you.

“The contract of incarnation will be same for everybody, there will be no special privileges, although some may well declare that there are. The contract will expire only when all of the lessons reach a satisfying end. What will be satisfying is determined by you!”

On the bottom there was some useful information. For example, the goal is not to have a lot of money when leaving the body. For fame, popularity and “being first” will not get you any type of bonus. Violence will never lead you to anything constructive. Drugs, legal or illegal, will misrepresent the perception of the lessons that are supposed to be an extraordinary opportunity for evolution.

“The goal of others can mislead you from the path, but you do not have to act up to the mistakes of others,” the notice continued, “Just because everyone else chooses to behave in a certain way it does not have to mean that it is right. However, it can be useful to observe repeating situations. The rules are there to be looked into. Time will be just an illusion and a problem will rarely have just one solution. Trying to copy will not be profitable and that one that will be offering ´life insurance´ will be a conman. Scientific opinions and holy books will serve to confuse. Restraining others from progress will not bring any advantages and arbitrary cancellation of the incarnation will lead only to a huge amount of useless administration.”

However the advice had warm words as well. It said that nothing bad can be done, at the most everything can take a bit ´longer´. The access to all of the answers will have the souls through a special connection in the heart. Moreover, the one that will get into the game will be constantly loved - whether born in the Bronx or in Somalia. Maybe it will feel different in the human skin, but we cannot be fooled by that.

“Everything in the educational territory will react to the radiation of the heart, whereby the attempts to damage the educational territory will lead to constraints. It will be risky to entrust your body to somebody else, but you will get the opportunity to leave the body (especially in the night time), even though the memories about the experience out of the body will not be saved in the brain. Playing with the body will be the personal right of every one of you, but playing with the bodies of others will require their approval.” The notice continued.

“You will not be the only ones that can doubt the purpose of the contract of the incarnation, but once you agree, it will be useless to complain about anything.” And the rules of the game were concluded.

It all sounded crazy as the millions of souls were tired of hovering over the planets where there was nothing happening they were applied in droves. Who would want to lay on the clouds all life and be bored? The temptation was the fact that the passionate organizers picked for the school playground a beautiful blue-green planet called Earth. Its mother was an amazing sparkling star, called the Sun. Both cosmic entities agreed with everything and promised that they will be helpful the whole time of the experiment, even though the inventors warned them that the ‘kids’ could sometimes forget about their providers and even start to hurt them. Everything was forgiven in advance.

From different corners of the galaxy numerous souls came to the Earth with the desire to go through something unseen. Firstly humankind travelled through the lowest forms of education. They faced problems like how to get food, how to bear with the cold or other climates. Later the bloody wars came, afflictions through disease, epidemics and disasters.

Little by little a part of the earthly population that reached the materialistic contentment, started reflecting in higher frequencies, so the lessons changed their content and the form. Pain stopped afflicting the body, everything started happening in the minds of the players. To the loss of the beloved, diseases and the appeasement with the deaths of close ones, there was more often an increased number of lessons of gossiping, slandering, envy, lying, cheating, break ups, spiritual and other consequence. The people involved in the game, whose coherences were deleted during the repeated entrance to the game (reincarnation), were learning above all, during their times of material stability, through relationships.

Luminous beings of the universe were observing curiously the course of events in the educational territory waiting, seeing if the white would accept the black, the smart one would support the illiterate, the fast would wait for the handicapped, and the rich would feed the poor. If the volunteers would understand that they are attracting themselves what comes back to them and that they have to look within themselves in the first place - instead of blaming their surroundings. They were hoping that the players will get to understand that sooner or later they will have to learn how to stop judging, envying, gossiping, expecting, fighting, sorting out their own imperfections through others... And they will focus on their own emotions, reactions, desires, dreams, that will lead them to happiness. Personal, familiar, social, worldly, universal, connected to one entity.

And so we are being born here and continually influence each other. According to the agreement we are creating each other’s opportunity for growth. With tension, hence by that, that we are hammering into each other. We are extremely important - every one of us. Once we are teachers, another time we are the students. Yes, we came here to learn. Studying is the growth. The growth is the search for our personal answers. Nobody can do it for us, we have to do it alone, only we can find the answers, to get to know ourselves. Others can only push us, suggest a direction, offer advice or their own perspective on things, but the rest is on us. The whole work of understanding, accepting, forgiving and thanking. Some people, from weakness and illiteracy, would rather buy it, but cannot be bought. It can only be survived, wept away, felt. When the clouds will let through the first rays of hope, there comes the time to analyse, to ask, to look for help, to find the answers. Acceptance, melting, understanding, reparation and harmonization of the “problem”.

We were born here to learn. You will handle one lesson and another lesson is subscribing to speak. When you finally find a good job, the illness will come. After recovering, maybe your wife will cheat on you. The relationship earthquake will stop and the problems with kids will come. You will handle this collision, and suddenly your loved mother will leave...and like this, over and over again, not one year wasted. The people claim that self- starter (perpetuum mobile) does not exist, but I say it does. The machine functions on the strongest principle of exchange of affliction to Love.

This prognosis may sound bad for a game. But say hello to every day with happiness and thank the divine Providence for everything that is given to you. You are more than gifted to refuse all the issues to knowledge. “Bad” things are, in reality, the gifts from God that are supposed to help you grow and accomplish the final goal of the life without pain. All of you are unique, in the whole history of the universe there is nobody like you. That is why if you lost your faith in You and your abilities, you must activate them again to the maximum of their power. It is never ending and with its help you can achieve all your dreams. Believe in your inner wisdom and there will be no morning that you will not say, the best day of your life waiting for you.

If some “bad” thing happens to you, never forget, that it is only happening for your good. Nobody can take away from us a personal experience ingrained into our understanding. Those are the most valuable rewards that you can take from here. For yourself, through the Earth to the Sun, for the children of tomorrow back to God. God decided to dissolve into billions of billions of particles. He is infinitely playful and smart. He is watching warmly how are we growing by micro steps and putting ourselves back to the entity called Love. Welcome.

If you want to find your path, drop everything, step out and get burnt

Yes, if you want to find your personal truth, in the very beginning you have to drop everything. Forget about all the religions, beliefs, philosophies, magi and their celebrated books, teachers, esoterics, priests and gurus. It is not going to work without this step. Nobody, not even the absolutely last prisoner of the world, has been plundered of a possibility to find personal answers. Every person has to walk alone through his path with full responsibility.

Once you start searching, you will repeatedly make mistakes. The only ones to not make a mistake, will be those who never try anything. It is not working without missteps. However mistakes mean a new experience that brings new knowledge. Who starts searching, will start waking up. A human reaches two adulthoods in his life. One is adulthood of the physical body - very overestimated today, and the second one is spiritual adulthood. For example the children of our Slavic ancestors were taken by the old ´volchvovia´ (an old word for the wise ones - translator´s note), to study with them for forty years. After that they were mature to control the natural elements. According to this analogism the spiritual maturity of the incarnated beings to Slavic nations should come around forty. In someone sooner, in another one later, in some other in the next life. But since everything happens the way it is supposed to, who will not wake up is not supposed to wake up. He is supposed to be the “teacher” his whole life, therefore create “pain” to others, and by that doing them a priceless service as an opener of spiritual sight.

Each of our words moves and gestures release energy that we will carry the consequences for. If these of our expressions are created by purity of intentions, we are creating so called dharma and our award will be happiness, joy and liberation. If however a person is working with pain, hatred, revenge, avidity or brittleness, he is forming debts that he will have to acquit at some point. But let´s not take karma as a punishment or payment for infringements. Let´s perceive it as a consequence, an inevitable component of our process of learning on Earth.

Some would say that it is better to do nothing, that we at least will not make mistakes. Except then we will not be growing. It is better to make mistakes and get dirty, and then sleep. Find the courage to meet with the desire of the heart, act, even if you are to expose yourselves to risk. Even to that one, for example, that they will look at you as a fool. After all, you are acting in the name of your love, dream or adventure that will lead you to a real life.

Touch the centre of your sadness. Put a finger in the wound of betrayal and taste it. Do not stop living because of fear of more possible pain; do not move from the stage of existence. Who never sinned and does not survive falling, that one will not learn much here. Learn how to live with pain, accept it and it will go away. You will start wildly dancing again and the ecstasy of being will fill you to the end of fingers. The limits of your own life are defined by you.

Are you standing close in front of a decision? If you are still not sure, take one more small step, the co-ordinates will change and a new perspective will give you fresh information that will maybe move everything. Make a decision. Even if it should be bad. It will be better than being weak waiting in fear. In an opened flower of “bad” end, there is a lesson offered to everyone. Yes, the most important is to learn. From everything. It is not important how many missteps a person does, not even if he is insulted or criticized for it. It is important to learn to observe our weaknesses and fight with them. Do not be so rational, careful, tense, or scared that you will make a mistake - you will not move anywhere like that. Do not be paralyzed by fear. Instead the other way round, find the courage to act, risk making mistakes, learn to say what you feel. Train yourselves so your acting will not attract more learning, but grace and blessing.

I am writing about the cosmic law of Intelligence. You cannot plant a cherry tree and collect pears. It does not work like that; it is a law of cause and consequence. So if you are acting with anger, hatred and cruelty, once you will feel the anger, hatred and cruelty on yourselves. The echo will not disappear; the ball will knock everybody on the ground who will incontinently throw it hard at the wall.

Our awakening occurs from “pains”, let us be grateful for them. Yes, the first meeting with the truth happens through pain most of the time. Through suffering of searching there is a baby of wisdom being born. So there is only good happening to us. Do not forget. The events that sent me to the bottom at one time and at that moment looked like the biggest life catastrophe, could after years create a smile on my face: “Yes, that had to happen to me and it was the best that could come to my way, but I did not see it at that time.” I expressed this realization after understanding the connections. I gave thanks for every “pain” later, because thanks to them a door opened for me. The courage for opening the gates of wisdom through pain would be there, but unfortunately the door, on a certain level of being, simply cannot be seen yet.

Every one of us has to earn our own experience, find our own truth, because before being born he got specific lessons according to the spiritual year achieved in the last life. Based on the final coordinates of being on Earth, he is choosing parents, the family base with unsolved things, heritable diseases and other family defects. Also a nation, which has its mission on Earth. Nothing happens accidentally, everything is related to everything. We are swimming in an unbelievably well invented mechanism of relations, interactions; each of our decisions brings a consequence. But however everything “accelerates”, we do not have to wait for an echo to the next incarnation or long decades. What took lives yesterday is coming back after months today.

Many souls were raised according to strict rules of some religion. They have to act according to instructions of a man, in other words they cannot search. They became slaves of their gods; their master does not want them to find something. The highest dignitaries proudly announced that everything is already discovered, the system is perfectly invented so the sheep does not have to be afraid and by no means can they doubt. A slave is not supposed to think. It happens because of a control over the herd, which the bigger it is, will bring more wool, milk, skin... More slaves, more wealth. For example, I always smile within myself, when at the beginning of the year, the Vatican publish their billions in yearly income.

Fear is a natural defence reflex, but it can be overrun by knowledge. Be interested, read, study, change illiteracy to knowledge. An illiterate person becomes a mass man; we can calmly call him a slave. No religion should “freeze” the knowledge and announce it as finished thing, because everything is in constant evolution. There are surviving dogmas according to which after a “wrong” life, comes an eternal punishment and no chance for repetition exists. Whereby, of course, everything is decided exclusively by the “only one” god defined by this or that religion. Like that the evolution of the society is stopped for centuries or millennia. And a prayer becomes a rattling mill. Remember that helpful hands are more beloved to God than praying lips.

I do not speak with the words of this period of time and advise people contrary: if you will feel an inner hunger for spiritual progress, bring yourselves to temptation, because if a mistake will not come, no experience from that mistake will come. Because of that, observe your inner operations and analyse your present life. From daily “meaningless” events to lifelong, indeed the hereditary repetitions of certain things. Do not forget that nothing in this world happens just like that, there is something behind everything, some hidden algorithm. Look for the connections, tidy up broken relations, find the way to achieving your dreams.

Alexandra David- Neel, a Belgian-French researcher, expert on Tibetan religion and philosophy, wrote several compelling books about her long travels in Tibet. She spent 40 years getting to know the eastern cultures. She developed in knowledge so far that she was even able to materialise a companion monk to accompany her in her wandering. Her books offer many interesting findings. One of them is a recommendation that, one who gets on the road of spiritual development, cannot believe in anything, even though other people believe in it for millennia. Simply he has to refuse everything because it is only the opinions or experiences of other people.

As a matter of fact, what are we risking if in the beginning of our spiritual path we refuse everything and start from nothing? If that what the surrounding world teaches us is really true, we will only confirm it via our own experience. It is said, why waste time if everything is already given? You never can make a wrong step, remember that. After that it will be your experience and not a dogma.

Forget about the guru that is not giving you a chance to discuss because he looks like he is bigger than his students. In his “greatness” he desires that you blindly follow his instructions because in his “impeccability” he wants to blow up your curiosity that can bring you new solutions for next generations. And if only for you, it is an amazing continuation of a story. A bad student hurts only himself, a bad teacher hurt thousands. Not all the clouds bring rain and a real guru does not want to be followed, he is going for the independence of the students. The real leaders are inspiring people to be greater and to do the things that they are afraid of. They want to leave a belief in people that they have to continue alone and they can achieve everything.

Nobody can claim that he found the final truth of the world. Everything is in constant motion, everything is constantly changing. A dog that jumps is not the same dog that landed on the ground. Many people do not know about the master of martial arts, Bruce Lee, that he had a huge library. In every book from his collection were red notes, he had annotated everything. He was reading a lot, studying. Once, one of his students asked him to finally give a name to his style. Bruce answered: “I cannot call it anything, because it is a martial art of this year. Next year it will be a completely different martial art.”

There are many ways leading to the top of the mountain, but after reaching the top we have the same panorama. Create your own perspective on the world; every one of us is different, unique, an individual. However many people, account for the number of ways to the Truth. My model of the world was created by my heart; it is my understanding of the world. If I was reading something and my heart was laughing, I immediately knew that this is the truth for me. It is the best signal of where to go. For example if you find yourself fascinated by a derivative bath (according to ancient tradition is said that many of the diseases in a body can be healed by daily, approximately ten minutes long, washing of sex organs in cold water) and your interior will be whispering “yes, this makes me vibrate already during the reading”, try to practice it. After the recommended time of applying of the method evaluate if it had an impact on your body or not. Do not make any other steps if you are not convinced about the correctness of the previous steps.

If something is attracting your attention, there is something valuable hidden in that just for you. For example if there are some collocation appearing, there is a part of your life puzzle in them. Start resolving. I personally love to watch documentaries from the Second World War, especially about the battle of Stalingrad. My “sister” Sofia proposed me many times to look to that incarnation through regressive therapy, because there is certainly something important hidden for me that can help me lighten something else from present. However my curiosity did not come to the point to go through that. But while I am writing these lines, an answer is coming to me that soon it will come to the “Stalingrad”. And this is the hunger I was mentioning. Something is attracting you, some period of time, some event, aroma, person, or story. Because there is a part of you, some connection with you, that will help you see and therefore understand.

I look at the world with diametrically different perspective that was offered to me during my youth. If something is affecting me painfully, I immediately start asking myself: “What is this event saying to me? Why did this disease come? What is behind the relation with this or that person that is not getting better? Why did I lose part of my daily amount of energy after this phone call? Why did I argue with my wife today? Are the abusive reactions to my blogs, novels, poetry hurting me? To what extent? To what degree is my ego included?”

I am asking many questions and my inner self is answering. If the answers are painful, I know, I am on a good way, I come to know something new about myself, I uncover the covered, and I am calling on Light. Because everything that is happening to me, is me, I caused it, it is supposed to make me get to know myself and fix it. Do not curse on the robbers, gossipers, enviers that are “hurting” you. Ask yourselves, ‘What are these people supposed to say about you?’ And if you do not know to answer? Wait, every foetus will mature. In some cases, ask those who know more than you for help, to get light on the connections.

Dear ones, the work on oneself is not about reading books or spending time on the internet reading the sentences that are written by someone else. You have to help yourselves, nobody else will help you. Others can give you only advice but you have to turn it to experience by yourself. The work starts in us. It is the time that we spend in a dialogue with ourselves, with our own soul. Only this will give us the real freedom, this will free us from the dependence on others. The Light that is in us has a constant need to connect with the light that does not depend on our souls. It is only on us if we will advance in this life and become a being without boundaries and without any limits. We are limited only by ourselves.

Knowing is one thing, live is the other. Do everything like you are saying. And say like you are feeling. First thing, act. If you get burnt, you will surely find wisdom in the embers. Put it to your heart forever. You do not need anybody to be happy. In the beginning you can only redeem yourself. Help others and give advice only when asked. Be honest, talk about your adventures and your personal experiences. Do not exaggerate, do not misrepresent, do not lie, do not shorten or add to the stories. Only like this you can truly represent your own truth.

Go deep within; lay down on the bottom of the ocean. There is silence and calmness. The noise and discomfort from roaring of the raging waves are only on the surface.

We are all magicians

After publication of the book Primer of Happiness: The Return to OURSELVES, I was daily receiving demands for a contact for Sofia or Baba Jaga. As if the readers told themselves: “These people helped Baričák, they will help me as well, they are almighty.” People, the system of being on Earth is unbelievably beautifully invented, it cannot be described in any book. You have to understand that if something helps someone, it can hurt someone else. It is not only about the fact that I feel inner need to protect someone´s privacy, but also about the fact that these being were a way for me. Nobody is almighty. On the other side I am telling everybody that everything we need is everywhere around us. The medicines for our diseases are in our forests, in nature, that is the Primer of happiness that God left us.

Once I was carrying out a dialogue with one passionate confessor of urine therapy. He was telling me how he unhappily stabbed his hand on a rusted clinker in the basement. Not accidentally he had his evaporated concentrated urine on the shelf. He poured it into his hand, closed it and waited. The hand stopped bleeding and the infection or inflammation did not come even during the next few days. He did not even go to see a doctor with that injury. He was explaining to me that he is not afraid of anything because he has the urine always with himself. If his throat is scratching, he gargles with morning urine. If he feels a sign of rhinitis, he snuffs the urine. He spreads it on his face and I will tell you that guy looks fifteen years younger than his ID is saying. He rubs the external haemorrhoidal with a morning urine, he simply feels that he is supposed to heal everything with urine, so he is doing it. I am not insinuating you try urine therapy, not everybody is able to get over some barriers. In short, this is his way and I mentioned it for the similarity of the thoughts: We have everything important on our fingertips.

Our physical angels are also close to us. I mean people that know how to help us. But do not put all the hopes in the first person whose healing ability you learned about. You are alleviating your path, the universe does not want it this way. It wants you to get strong, make some effort. Durable things do not come to us easily, we have to deserve them. The mental pain or disease, urge a certain period of time, so the lesson is effective - so it will really make us think and make a change. God helps those who are helping themselves. Our spiritual evolution has a certain sequence; we are building our temples brick by brick. That is why everything we need is exposed to us in the right time. To humankind as well as to the individual. That is why the rescuers that can help you will come in that time when you emptied all of your possibilities- at the eleventh hour. Because Providence wants you to work on things with your own powers. We are not supposed to somehow live to the end on Earth, but take all the most valuable things from everything.

We are all strong, we have a Godly principle encoded in us. It is enough to touch ourselves, get to know the power and we will evocate a change. Let us be guided by our feelings, the God in us. Let us do only the things that is in accord with ourselves. Do not look for the truth outside, we have it in our inner selves. If you then do not believe in the power of urine, maybe you will believe in the simpler power of heart.

Become the island of a positive tune. Be optimists, and just in case make sure the champagne is cold already today. In every mess try to change to Barón Prášil (A book by a German author Gottfried August Bürgera

-translator´s note). After all, he managed to pull himself out of a swamp, and that is magic!

Learn how to live with a setback. Take it as breeding- ground for your success later. Get rid of wishes and the inner peace will come. The poorest people are those who are slaves of their own desires. Reject and you will gain. Take control and disturb your inner. Be greedy of gain only if it comes to spiritual treasures.

It is good to wake up from the drama of apparent reality that we created by ourselves. Realization of the immortality of the spirit, getting rid of narrow perspective of the world and the development of wider perception of the universes is very important. Remember that you came to this world because you wanted to work on yourselves.

Do not listen to the evil, do not get interested in scandals, insults, the expressions of hatred or fear, ignore the talking of godless and corrupted people whose heart are deprived of love. Focus your attention on the acts that are the representation of brotherly love between people. Bad eyes see only evil in others. Anger cannot be eliminated by anger, cruelty cannot be stopped by cruelty. Maybe only through understanding, acceptance, compassion and love. Try to clean your heart from bitterness, greediness, grudge, prejudice, revenge, envy, triviality, egoism and anger. The feelings of dominance or inferiority are created only in hearts infected by ego. In other words, mercy, goodness and penance lead to the purity of heart and mind. You will be met with generous thoughts, books and people that you will attract with the principle: what is in you that will come to you.

Allegedly you were reached by a material need, disease or broken relationships, and so you are writing me to give you contact to Sofia or Baba Jaga. The collapse, setback or pain is only the signal that you are making mistakes in something, that you are supposed to correct, get better in something, and work on yourselves. The universe has enough wealth for everybody. If it is not giving to you, you have closed door somewhere. The flow of the energy is not going; the block does not allow any abundance to come to you.

Reject the sick message of yesterday´s generation that every joy has to be overbought by the feeling of pain and guilt. What kind of God are the people looking for in the churches? God does not want you to suffer; he does not need you to serve him. You will reciprocate him if you will be helping others because every person is his residence. A mistaken obsession with God is the most harmful type of obsession and the biggest hypocrisy is to kneel down in front of him and then force others to kneel down in front of you.

I wish you to get on with solving your personal lessons, so you can enjoy the “art of living” in the time of relaxation. I am not guru or a spiritual leader. I am an ordinary person who is looking for connections, who is getting to know the forgotten laws of the universe. I am only a small light that flashed up for few people. Take me as a candle until you find other lights. I was also influenced by many books, events, and people, some of those my path of searching later diverted my opinion from. I remember all of them with respect. If then, in a year’s time, you will say “Baričák has nothing more to give me”, it will be the biggest honour for me. Because it will be the proof that you are growing and you are going your own way.

You are candle as well, so go and light up other people. Even when problems will fall under your feet, remember that you are almighty magician that can conjure his own “Sofia” or his own “Baba Jaga”. From your town, your surroundings, community, tune...They are within reach but you cannot see them yet because they are not supposed to be shown to you yet. You will get to know them when the best moment will come for you.

From the intention to the thought: “What you are thinking about, you are multiplying”

In the first episode of The Primer of Happiness I dedicated a big part of the book to intention, to the art of conjuring up something that we are missing at that moment - whether if it is on the spiritual, material or other level. I forgot to emphasize enough the importance of humility, purity of intention and sacrifice for achieving that particular thing.

I will sum up the magic of substantiation as a goal in few sentences. The first is to exactly know what you want. Who does not have a goal is vainly looking for a path. Today´s people are saying yes, but they think no. It is a learnt “principle of mask”, that is sickly sold to us by one confused generation after another. It does not lead anywhere but to prickly paths where there will be life lessons and pains closely operate to make you come back to yourselves, your work, personal truth and personal happiness. So if you desire something, clearly answer within you what it is supposed to be, how it is supposed to look, how will you feel when it all come true. Define it the most perfectly you know: “I want a partner that will spend more time with kids and family than the last one.”- “I wish to find a new job where there will be an amazing team and I will love my job.”- “I wish an improvement in my financial situation so I will pay for the loan and it will still be enough for a new car.”

Identify with your intention to the last cell of your body, not one part of your being can be afraid. Let us give an example. If somebody is asking you if you want to go on holiday with your neighbours and you say yes, even though twenty-seven percent of your soul does not like your neighbour, the amount you relax next to the sea will end up according to this equation. You have to be ready with every pore to accept required gift from the universe and filled with love use it. If you are answering in a fragmented fashion, the things will progress even though what you said is considered by your ears as an act of solution. No, the things continue because part of your inner self did not identify with it. You just did not tell yourself the truth.

The next step on the way to achieving of the dream is the best visualization of the intention. For example, you desire a very expensive dress that you do not have money for, actually you cannot even find them in the stores. In this case, imagine how you are looking at yourself in the new costume in front of a mirror. The dreamy dark blue is exactly the shade you like. All the details of the dress and the whole design is perfect. Your dream costume fits you very well, you look beautiful in it and it came to you through a proper way, even though it was very expensive.

Or every time before falling asleep imagine your dream again, how you are walking happily through a park and you are holding hand of the exact man that you have always dreamt about. Not the one that your mum and grandmother forced you. That man who has hair black as charcoal, he is tall, his eyes has the exact reflection of good things that you are looking for years for. The clearer and more specified in details your dream is, the bigger the chance of success.

If we have our dream hung in the clouds, over scanning it would lead to nowhere, it is necessary to start working on it. If you are dreaming about a better work position, it is time to start studying. If you want to be successful in sport, it is necessary to train, ask people that are successful in that particular area, about techniques and methods that helped them. Ask your angels for help and there are people coming to your way that will help and lighten the areas that were taboo for you until now. Without involvement of all of your powers, it will not work. You have to want; you have to go for it. You cannot just desire, you have to “sweat” for it and then the real miracles will start to happen and it will come to the words from Paolo of Coelho from Brazil that the whole universe will come together and help you.

One story from life. “I have always thought that if I were good and nice to people, they would be good and nice to me too. In this spirit, I started working as a sales manager in one store where there were four shop assistants. I quickly found out that they are divided into two enemy camps - one shift against the other. Whereby the shift that was not at work in that moment was the bad one: they did not clean well; they did not unload the goods. In short the day always began with finding the mistakes that the other shift left in the style of, “We have to correct it all”. Personal dialogues with each one of them did not help, I found that out immediately. Ultimately, every one of them was a poor thing that is doing everything by herself and all the other ones, even the colleagues from the same shift, were lazy.

So I did try work conferences where every one of them could say what was pissing her off and what was pleasing them. And that was another shock for me: face to face they were all four big friends and there was nothing that annoyed any of them! Actually between each other they called themselves Kitty or Honey. That knocked me out completely. Because of that I tried something different. I made a positive board with their pictures. On every one I wrote four lines what they are doing the best, what they were excelling in and what they were great at. Furthermore I wrote there in capital letters: Every one of you is unique!

The result? Two of them understood it and they start improving. Another one took is as she already knows everything (paradoxically the one that was there the shortest time) and that she could boss around the other ones and the last one did not like it at all. She said that I was establishing innovations that she was not used to. Summa summarum I fired the last two and started looking for two new shop assistants. The CVs were collected and sent to managers. They chose two new young reinforcements. One gave up after three months and the other one was scared of customers...

Every day on the way to and from work, many times during the day, I was thinking about what kind of shop assistant I want. She should be nice and smiling, not scared to express herself, willing to serve and that she should have the art of selling encoded in her blood. Let her enjoy the work and enjoy it, so she will come here with joy.

After a week something unbelievable showed up in the storage door – a nice and smiling sun. Happy, willing to work and with optimism to give. I was flabbergasted. Clearly she was picked in the interview and when she started working, I did not have time to wonder. She was selling as she had been there for years. Even though she did not know the products, she was not scared at all that someone in the shop will ask her and she will not know the answer. She immediately called colleagues and asked for advice. From the first moment she was working with the cash desk as she were doing it forever even though it was obviously her first job. She was running between the customers and smiling. She was enjoying herself even when she had fried cauliflower for lunch! On the top of that she looked like a top model.

I asked her what she thinks about the fact that I dreamt her up. And she: “That is clear. I function like that as well, that I dream up something, I think about something I want and it comes.”

It is really only on you, what reality you want to live. It will materialize according to the future you are imagining, what you are thinking about. Are you clear about what you desire? Are you asking spiritual authorities for accomplishment of your desires? If your dreams would come true right at this moment, wouldn´t you hurt other beings with them? Even though we all are free beings with limitless spirit and unbelievable power, it is very good to consciously control your thoughts. Yes, we are capable of everything, believe that. But at the same time remember that you are not alone in here. So be careful what you are saying, what words you are using. Begin to choose them consciously and think mostly positively. The control of thinking and emotions is necessary; otherwise considering the constant flow of new vibrations, we would not survive. Ok, we would survive but we would still be imprisoned in the old world of pain and long incarnations. Why not become free, if there are new possibilities opened and everything goes easier?

In the previous episode of the Primer of Happiness, I did not write a warning to never go the way of harming another soul or any other living form. Do not forget that everything around you is alive. Do not lie to yourself that it does not apply to the rock or the river. They are beautiful entities of the Earth with their own sensible soul. Some may think: “Why is this bald idiot tutoring me?! It is clear that nothing bad should be wished to anyone else!” Well, if it came to me during writing it, it was supposed to be here. Moreover, it does not have to be clear to everybody because every one of us was raised differently. Besides to any one of us that has this rule “under their skin” can come to examine our ability not to react to bad with bad, so as not to hurt our fellows.